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Friday, April 30, 2010
Isn't it a huge mistake for teens to get dating advice from P&S?
Join the MARINESIsn't it a huge mistake for teens to get dating advice from P%26amp;S?
Yes, it is.Isn't it a huge mistake for teens to get dating advice from P%26amp;S?
You would have thought so, but somehow I think they'll never learn!
If it's dating advice they want, they're probably better off in Singles %26amp; Dating than P%26amp;S.
Teens?
Thats a sore subject with me. Of course I've lived with 4 so far
Yes! Then again, I find P%26amp;S people to be more sane than S%26amp;D people...
At least here the advice is better then in S%26amp;D.
By the way, did anyone think that after devastating S%26amp;D last night they'll all come here?
Nightmare!
P%26amp;S%26amp;S%26amp;D!
lol
i would say so, yes
Yes.
But I agree with many of you that it is better than S%26amp;D. If you ask for dating advice there, the answers you'll likely get would be ';Why? Are you pregnant?'; or ';Be careful, you might be pregnant.';
You tell them dude, You are so right, have a great day =]
dun think so..where else can u get tips and advices f.o.c. from real ppls?some of it reallt useful and helpful too,ya know?plus,if we ask our frends we mught gt like 2-3 answrs,but e can get like 10-15 answers in minutes..
Probably, but not their first mistake made.
1) they can't articulate (or spell, or use punctuate)
2) They often feel they should be in relationships they shouldn't have the emotional maturity for for another 5 yeas (and it's a running scale)
3) They are doing things that they can't discuss with their parents. (if you are 23 and ask your mom about sex, you will get a TOTALLY different answer than if you are 12 and ask the same question.
4) they mistake attraction with love.
5) they think sex is the path to being loved
So, coming to people at P%26amp;S could be harmful if someone wants to do harm or is immature, or has some developmental issues. (or heck, is just plain dumb)
Yes, they might get pregnant!
its a huge mistake for anybody any age to get any advise from anyone on p@s but yet thats what i love about us
Yes, I try to stay away from those. They don't want my opinion.
If they are taking this advice seriously then yes it is a mistake...
If they take the advice from morons and jackasses,then yes.If they're taking advice from other teens or people who have been in similar situations,and really want to help,then no.But I'd fully expect parents to load their kids up with advice on dating.
very very huge
What and have them learn it on the streets
And they should get advice from S%26amp;D?
Yes, it is.Isn't it a huge mistake for teens to get dating advice from P%26amp;S?
You would have thought so, but somehow I think they'll never learn!
If it's dating advice they want, they're probably better off in Singles %26amp; Dating than P%26amp;S.
Teens?
Thats a sore subject with me. Of course I've lived with 4 so far
Yes! Then again, I find P%26amp;S people to be more sane than S%26amp;D people...
At least here the advice is better then in S%26amp;D.
By the way, did anyone think that after devastating S%26amp;D last night they'll all come here?
Nightmare!
P%26amp;S%26amp;S%26amp;D!
lol
i would say so, yes
Yes.
But I agree with many of you that it is better than S%26amp;D. If you ask for dating advice there, the answers you'll likely get would be ';Why? Are you pregnant?'; or ';Be careful, you might be pregnant.';
You tell them dude, You are so right, have a great day =]
dun think so..where else can u get tips and advices f.o.c. from real ppls?some of it reallt useful and helpful too,ya know?plus,if we ask our frends we mught gt like 2-3 answrs,but e can get like 10-15 answers in minutes..
Probably, but not their first mistake made.
1) they can't articulate (or spell, or use punctuate)
2) They often feel they should be in relationships they shouldn't have the emotional maturity for for another 5 yeas (and it's a running scale)
3) They are doing things that they can't discuss with their parents. (if you are 23 and ask your mom about sex, you will get a TOTALLY different answer than if you are 12 and ask the same question.
4) they mistake attraction with love.
5) they think sex is the path to being loved
So, coming to people at P%26amp;S could be harmful if someone wants to do harm or is immature, or has some developmental issues. (or heck, is just plain dumb)
Yes, they might get pregnant!
its a huge mistake for anybody any age to get any advise from anyone on p@s but yet thats what i love about us
Yes, I try to stay away from those. They don't want my opinion.
If they are taking this advice seriously then yes it is a mistake...
If they take the advice from morons and jackasses,then yes.If they're taking advice from other teens or people who have been in similar situations,and really want to help,then no.But I'd fully expect parents to load their kids up with advice on dating.
very very huge
What and have them learn it on the streets
And they should get advice from S%26amp;D?
I need some serious advice from parents,teens,and people who have some sence?
Im 15
and I have a really good friend whos a girl and shes 15 also
We are VERY close friends
but over the last 9 months she has been going out wtih this guy
Hes 17
Shes 15
Rememebr that.
So about 5 months ago he broke up with her because he said she was annoying
But all of a sudden he is in love with her again
She says they date but they are not labled as boyfriend girlfriend? Last night she sent me a txt saying that she has been going';all out'; with him
they have been haveing S** and shes only 15!!!!
She said all he asks for now are b***jobs and s**
He is using her and she dosen't see it
Her parents don't know about it all but don't really like him
Please I need some adivce on what to say to her and what to do
because I can't let this ruin are friendship
it make me this really bad feeling and I don't like it
I need some answers from parents
Teens
People who have this happen
ANYONE!
Please no dumba** answers
only real helpful ones
Thank youI need some serious advice from parents,teens,and people who have some sence?
You need to remind your friends how close you are and how you always want wut is best for her. Sit down and have a very long needed talk tell her she shouldnt be with a guy who only wants those things from her and she shouldn't even be doing them if they are NOT even going out. Tell her to test him tell her to ask him if he really cares for her...if she tells him she wont give him nething for a while see what he says he will most likely leave and then she will really see. It's hard to get a girl to see things when she is blinded by lust..and you may NOT be able to get your friend to see it. But just be there constantly telling her she shouldn't be doing that and that she should just leave him alone..because eventually he is gonna find someone else who can provide and she will be left in pieces. Tell her how dangerous it is he could have other girls doing the same thing..can you say sexually and orally transmitted illnesses..let her know about those how it can ruin her life if he is a cheaterI need some serious advice from parents,teens,and people who have some sence?
First thing, you friend is going to do whatever she wants to do whether she is 15 or not. If she can't see what some guy is doing to her then she won't listen to you. I know that you want to help your friend but that might upset her that you don't think that she is smart enough be with some guy. I think that you should approach her in a calm way and explain to her that not all guys are like that. Some guys actually want to get to know girls before getting sex or head! Be honest in a sincere way.
I can see your problem dude, Tell her what you feel, Coz if you're very close friends just like you said she would be a, Excuse me but a bit*h to not understand you. I'd bet she do understand you, there should't be any probs if you just tell her, share your thought's with her, there is nothing wrong with that.
Good luck =)
if you were really a friend, you would do what is right for your friend, she is way too young to be doing some sh*t like that. maybe you should save her from being stup*d..her bf has being brainwashing her...he is taking advantage of her because he knows that she is sprung over him. if that was my sister, id slap the sh*t out of that boy...talk to her parents, if you cant talk to her parents, talk to your parents to talk to hers about it. i think it would be easier for your parents and you to talk to her, than you going there yourself. save her from being pregnant and getting a disease. or getting herself in a depression. eventually. if she gets mad at you, then she will understand 10 years from now, why you did it. is because you are being the best friend you are. good luck and stay smart.
I know you are her friend and are concerned for her, and that makes sense. however if you start telling her that he is using her that will ruin your friendship, even though you are doing what you thought was right. i've been thru a couple of things like this, i've told my friend that he was using her and we haven't spoken since and that was over 15 years ago. however what you can do is be there for her, cuz her heart will be broken eventually. and what you can tell her is to be safe, use a condom every time even when she gives him a bj. it will be tough on you to watch her, but you also need to tell her that even though she ';loves'; him, she can get pregnant and / or an STD...
if you can give her some evidence to proof that the guy is just using her for sex that would be great, such as he has another gf and he had a bad reputation and sort of investigation about this blok would be helpful. GL.
you need to be gentle but firm. let her read this question, it might make her see the dangers of everything she's doing and how much trouble she could get into
ok my this happened to my friend about a yr ago.. she was 15 to.. so young i know! she thought he really loved her.. nd didnt see he was just using her for sex.. just like your friend..
it really sucked seeing her like this, and when he broke up wif her she started cutting herself!
sweety u must do something about it quik! make her realise he's just using her! he sounds like a complete jerk!
and also my aunty got pregnant when she was onli 15! this could happen 2 her 2.. think about it!
wow this must really suk 4 u.. just be a good friend.. thats all you can really do for now.. dont tell on her because you'll lose her friendship
trust me! just be there for her
gud luk!! =) nd hope i helped
Well you could talk about how she feels about doing that stuff. Maybe she'll come around to seeing that he's really not the guy for her. If it were me I'll tell her to dump him asap, but she might rebel against it. It's always better to let the other person come around to new realizations rather than just telling them something flat out. But it depends, if she respects what you say, maybe you CAN tell her flat out.
Here's another suggestion. Try suggesting to her that she tell him she has something like AIDS that he might catch if he doesn't cut this sex crap out. That might work to at least stop that stuff from going on.
talk to your friend. tell her that this guy doesn't make you feel comfortable. tell her the conaequences of having s** with this guy. What if she got pregnant?? would this guy stay with her and help her?? prob. not if he is only want to have s** with her and her give him b***jobs. if she is a really good friend of your then she should believe you and appriciate that you're trying to look out for you. you're a good friend :)
Don't talk to her about it - you know what she's going to say. A person that thinks they are in love will ignore any advice that tells them to do anything other than what they want to do.
Tell her dad. I know what her dad will say / do to that young man.
You need to find some way to let her parents know - right now! Minister? School teacher maybe?
Think about your relationship if she gets pregnant, or worse, gets any number of the hundreds of sexually transmitted diseases out there - most of which have no cure.
If your friend was about to drink from a glass that had poison in it, would you worry about the relationship, or knock the glass out of her hand before damage could be done?
Bottom line - you know - you don't do and you're as good as going along with it!makeup show
and I have a really good friend whos a girl and shes 15 also
We are VERY close friends
but over the last 9 months she has been going out wtih this guy
Hes 17
Shes 15
Rememebr that.
So about 5 months ago he broke up with her because he said she was annoying
But all of a sudden he is in love with her again
She says they date but they are not labled as boyfriend girlfriend? Last night she sent me a txt saying that she has been going';all out'; with him
they have been haveing S** and shes only 15!!!!
She said all he asks for now are b***jobs and s**
He is using her and she dosen't see it
Her parents don't know about it all but don't really like him
Please I need some adivce on what to say to her and what to do
because I can't let this ruin are friendship
it make me this really bad feeling and I don't like it
I need some answers from parents
Teens
People who have this happen
ANYONE!
Please no dumba** answers
only real helpful ones
Thank youI need some serious advice from parents,teens,and people who have some sence?
You need to remind your friends how close you are and how you always want wut is best for her. Sit down and have a very long needed talk tell her she shouldnt be with a guy who only wants those things from her and she shouldn't even be doing them if they are NOT even going out. Tell her to test him tell her to ask him if he really cares for her...if she tells him she wont give him nething for a while see what he says he will most likely leave and then she will really see. It's hard to get a girl to see things when she is blinded by lust..and you may NOT be able to get your friend to see it. But just be there constantly telling her she shouldn't be doing that and that she should just leave him alone..because eventually he is gonna find someone else who can provide and she will be left in pieces. Tell her how dangerous it is he could have other girls doing the same thing..can you say sexually and orally transmitted illnesses..let her know about those how it can ruin her life if he is a cheaterI need some serious advice from parents,teens,and people who have some sence?
First thing, you friend is going to do whatever she wants to do whether she is 15 or not. If she can't see what some guy is doing to her then she won't listen to you. I know that you want to help your friend but that might upset her that you don't think that she is smart enough be with some guy. I think that you should approach her in a calm way and explain to her that not all guys are like that. Some guys actually want to get to know girls before getting sex or head! Be honest in a sincere way.
I can see your problem dude, Tell her what you feel, Coz if you're very close friends just like you said she would be a, Excuse me but a bit*h to not understand you. I'd bet she do understand you, there should't be any probs if you just tell her, share your thought's with her, there is nothing wrong with that.
Good luck =)
if you were really a friend, you would do what is right for your friend, she is way too young to be doing some sh*t like that. maybe you should save her from being stup*d..her bf has being brainwashing her...he is taking advantage of her because he knows that she is sprung over him. if that was my sister, id slap the sh*t out of that boy...talk to her parents, if you cant talk to her parents, talk to your parents to talk to hers about it. i think it would be easier for your parents and you to talk to her, than you going there yourself. save her from being pregnant and getting a disease. or getting herself in a depression. eventually. if she gets mad at you, then she will understand 10 years from now, why you did it. is because you are being the best friend you are. good luck and stay smart.
I know you are her friend and are concerned for her, and that makes sense. however if you start telling her that he is using her that will ruin your friendship, even though you are doing what you thought was right. i've been thru a couple of things like this, i've told my friend that he was using her and we haven't spoken since and that was over 15 years ago. however what you can do is be there for her, cuz her heart will be broken eventually. and what you can tell her is to be safe, use a condom every time even when she gives him a bj. it will be tough on you to watch her, but you also need to tell her that even though she ';loves'; him, she can get pregnant and / or an STD...
if you can give her some evidence to proof that the guy is just using her for sex that would be great, such as he has another gf and he had a bad reputation and sort of investigation about this blok would be helpful. GL.
you need to be gentle but firm. let her read this question, it might make her see the dangers of everything she's doing and how much trouble she could get into
ok my this happened to my friend about a yr ago.. she was 15 to.. so young i know! she thought he really loved her.. nd didnt see he was just using her for sex.. just like your friend..
it really sucked seeing her like this, and when he broke up wif her she started cutting herself!
sweety u must do something about it quik! make her realise he's just using her! he sounds like a complete jerk!
and also my aunty got pregnant when she was onli 15! this could happen 2 her 2.. think about it!
wow this must really suk 4 u.. just be a good friend.. thats all you can really do for now.. dont tell on her because you'll lose her friendship
trust me! just be there for her
gud luk!! =) nd hope i helped
Well you could talk about how she feels about doing that stuff. Maybe she'll come around to seeing that he's really not the guy for her. If it were me I'll tell her to dump him asap, but she might rebel against it. It's always better to let the other person come around to new realizations rather than just telling them something flat out. But it depends, if she respects what you say, maybe you CAN tell her flat out.
Here's another suggestion. Try suggesting to her that she tell him she has something like AIDS that he might catch if he doesn't cut this sex crap out. That might work to at least stop that stuff from going on.
talk to your friend. tell her that this guy doesn't make you feel comfortable. tell her the conaequences of having s** with this guy. What if she got pregnant?? would this guy stay with her and help her?? prob. not if he is only want to have s** with her and her give him b***jobs. if she is a really good friend of your then she should believe you and appriciate that you're trying to look out for you. you're a good friend :)
Don't talk to her about it - you know what she's going to say. A person that thinks they are in love will ignore any advice that tells them to do anything other than what they want to do.
Tell her dad. I know what her dad will say / do to that young man.
You need to find some way to let her parents know - right now! Minister? School teacher maybe?
Think about your relationship if she gets pregnant, or worse, gets any number of the hundreds of sexually transmitted diseases out there - most of which have no cure.
If your friend was about to drink from a glass that had poison in it, would you worry about the relationship, or knock the glass out of her hand before damage could be done?
Bottom line - you know - you don't do and you're as good as going along with it!
What do you think about the fact that many Muslims come here for sex advice that any Western teen knows?
And then proceed to tell us how great their society is?
Geez, if it wasn't for us - most wouldn't even know 'where to put it' to make a baby!
If we stopped giving sex advice to them, do you think we could halt global overpopulation?What do you think about the fact that many Muslims come here for sex advice that any Western teen knows?
What are boobies?What do you think about the fact that many Muslims come here for sex advice that any Western teen knows?
well smart guy their is a difference between sex education and sex it self,,, and by the way don't be a raciest !
how do u think we made children in past years when everyoen were more prudish?
theres a reason why we have all fo these hornmones and desires that usually have to be tended to
Insensitive. I don't think all of them are like that.
Dont be a raicist...
%26amp; dont consider all muslim as conservatives %26amp; extremists..
Geez, if it wasn't for us - most wouldn't even know 'where to put it' to make a baby!
If we stopped giving sex advice to them, do you think we could halt global overpopulation?What do you think about the fact that many Muslims come here for sex advice that any Western teen knows?
What are boobies?What do you think about the fact that many Muslims come here for sex advice that any Western teen knows?
well smart guy their is a difference between sex education and sex it self,,, and by the way don't be a raciest !
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how do u think we made children in past years when everyoen were more prudish?
theres a reason why we have all fo these hornmones and desires that usually have to be tended to
Insensitive. I don't think all of them are like that.
Dont be a raicist...
%26amp; dont consider all muslim as conservatives %26amp; extremists..
Advice for moustache shaving for young male teen?
Has sensitive skin and has therefore been delaying the inevitable. Is it true shaving will stimulate the hair to grow faster and thicker? Should shaving be put off as late as possible? What method do you suggest - foam and razor or electric shaver? Any sensible advice welcome.
Thank you.Advice for moustache shaving for young male teen?
Razor is the best. Electric always made my face break out. A good quality razor like Gillette Fusion or Fusion Power (what I use). I also use Edge gel for sensitive skin. Like you said it's inevitable so might as well start. Splash your face with hot water before you apply the save gel. Good luck!Advice for moustache shaving for young male teen?
No, shaving does not make hair grow back thicker or faster. Complete myth. It looks thicker because you've lopped off the fine, tapered end of the follicles. It looks like it's growing faster initially after shaving because the contrast is greater between smooth and stubble than it is between stubble and longer stubble.
The incorrect thinking also derives from the fact that as one ages, one's facial hair grows in thicker and faster. And as one ages, one begins to shave. But correlation does not imply causation. Logic 101.
I would suggest u start with a good shaving cream, something for sensitive skin (THere are loads of options out there) and a good 3+blade razor. (Never skimp on the razor. U get what u pay for) It will probably seem that the hair comes in thicker after u start shaving, but don't worry about that. It's inevitable anyway. If u find that u don't like it, try electric. Let me kow if u have any questions. Ive tried it all as far as shaving is concerned. :)
Yes, I'm sure shaving does tend to make the hairs grow quicker than it would do otherwise. I used a razor to start with - but be careful with sensitive skin - use enough foam. I now generally use an electric shaver for quickness although a razor will get closer.
yes it grows thicker as you make the hair grow faster if totally removed
you need to try each way of shaving that suits you until you find one that's feel good for you
Try to trim it. I have the same problem.
I trimmed it once and kinda messed up so i had to shave the whole thing off. It grew back faster and thicker so I stopped. It doesn't look really thick though.
It's a myth. It doesn't come back thicker and darker. It does it on it's own. Go to http://www.snopes.com and search the question
Yes, after shaving, it will come back faster and thicker.
Thank you.Advice for moustache shaving for young male teen?
Razor is the best. Electric always made my face break out. A good quality razor like Gillette Fusion or Fusion Power (what I use). I also use Edge gel for sensitive skin. Like you said it's inevitable so might as well start. Splash your face with hot water before you apply the save gel. Good luck!Advice for moustache shaving for young male teen?
No, shaving does not make hair grow back thicker or faster. Complete myth. It looks thicker because you've lopped off the fine, tapered end of the follicles. It looks like it's growing faster initially after shaving because the contrast is greater between smooth and stubble than it is between stubble and longer stubble.
The incorrect thinking also derives from the fact that as one ages, one's facial hair grows in thicker and faster. And as one ages, one begins to shave. But correlation does not imply causation. Logic 101.
I would suggest u start with a good shaving cream, something for sensitive skin (THere are loads of options out there) and a good 3+blade razor. (Never skimp on the razor. U get what u pay for) It will probably seem that the hair comes in thicker after u start shaving, but don't worry about that. It's inevitable anyway. If u find that u don't like it, try electric. Let me kow if u have any questions. Ive tried it all as far as shaving is concerned. :)
Yes, I'm sure shaving does tend to make the hairs grow quicker than it would do otherwise. I used a razor to start with - but be careful with sensitive skin - use enough foam. I now generally use an electric shaver for quickness although a razor will get closer.
yes it grows thicker as you make the hair grow faster if totally removed
you need to try each way of shaving that suits you until you find one that's feel good for you
Try to trim it. I have the same problem.
I trimmed it once and kinda messed up so i had to shave the whole thing off. It grew back faster and thicker so I stopped. It doesn't look really thick though.
It's a myth. It doesn't come back thicker and darker. It does it on it's own. Go to http://www.snopes.com and search the question
Yes, after shaving, it will come back faster and thicker.
Needing advice for Miss Outstanding Teen Pageant?
This year, I'm doing the Miss Outstanding Teen pageant. The pageant is December 6th. I need advice on the interview, on-stage questions, etc. How can I boost my confidence so I'm not nervous on stage? What questions are common interview questions? What might they ask on stage? What are some good platform ideas? Any other advice is helpful.
Thanks.Needing advice for Miss Outstanding Teen Pageant?
as far as interviewing and questions go, once you enter, they will usually send you a bio sheet. this is how they get to know you and what you are all about...on paper. you have to bring the personality with you to the actual competition. the questions in interviews will usually come from this bio sheet, so you're not too surprised at crunch time. when youre filling out your sheets and applications, just be honest and brag about yourself. you want to make yourself BETTER than everyone else...show them why they should pick you over the next.
with platform, you should always go with something that is near and dear to you, or something that you have had an experience with. if you go that route, its a lot easier to talk about it on stage...whether its an on the spot question or one that you knew would be asked.
best wishes to you!!! you WILL be GREAT!!!
Needing advice for Miss Outstanding Teen Pageant?
If you are outstanding in every thing such as academics,sports, etc, you have nothing to worry about. As for stage fright, Just be honest and sincere and eat very light before you have your interview. It's only a one on one not like a full audience. Have confidence in your self and it will show. Good luck.
Thanks.Needing advice for Miss Outstanding Teen Pageant?
as far as interviewing and questions go, once you enter, they will usually send you a bio sheet. this is how they get to know you and what you are all about...on paper. you have to bring the personality with you to the actual competition. the questions in interviews will usually come from this bio sheet, so you're not too surprised at crunch time. when youre filling out your sheets and applications, just be honest and brag about yourself. you want to make yourself BETTER than everyone else...show them why they should pick you over the next.
with platform, you should always go with something that is near and dear to you, or something that you have had an experience with. if you go that route, its a lot easier to talk about it on stage...whether its an on the spot question or one that you knew would be asked.
best wishes to you!!! you WILL be GREAT!!!
Needing advice for Miss Outstanding Teen Pageant?
If you are outstanding in every thing such as academics,sports, etc, you have nothing to worry about. As for stage fright, Just be honest and sincere and eat very light before you have your interview. It's only a one on one not like a full audience. Have confidence in your self and it will show. Good luck.
I need some advice on a few things? (Teens pleaase)?
I'm 14 and well I'm dating someone who just turned 17. I am so scared to tell my mom, I don't think she will be mad but I dont when the right moment is.
So here are my questions
1. How do I tell her? When?
2. Is it wrong to date someone his age?
I need advice on my first kiss too, please and thank you haha (:I need some advice on a few things? (Teens pleaase)?
well first of all you have to make sure that your mom approves of you dating. If your not aloud to date until your 16 then i wouldn't tell her at all. I know i had little boy friends when i was 13 to 16 and i never told my mom or dad cuz they would have never let me go out. But when i turned 16 i had a bf and he was 20. My parents were pretty cool with it.
They gave me the whole ';sex talk'; lol and a curfew. All i did was like mom i met this really hot guy last night.. i think i like him and i know he likes me. we wanna go out for diner and a movie friday night. Do you think it would be ok. And she would tell me as long as he comes and picks you up and you give us a # where you can be reached go ahead and be safe. So it was pretty easy.
I don't think the age difference is a big thing.. its only 3 years. My hubby and I have 4.5 years difference.
As for your first kiss.. make sure you have breath mints! lol :)
Also just lean into him kinda thing, place one hand on his cheek/ear/head and close your eyes once you know that your nose is not in the way! open your mouth a little and kiss him! lol you can add a little bit of tongue if ya want.. just make it soft!! :)
Hope this helps! Good Luck Have Fun! and don't worry to much about mom! :)I need some advice on a few things? (Teens pleaase)?
He's only 3 years older. xD
Personally I wouldn't want to be dating a guy my age since they're all really immature (1 month till I'm 14 ^^)
My mom wouldn't care cuz she went out with the seniors as a freshman. xD I think you should just tell her now before you get super serious and if she says something about his age just say the thing about 14 yr old guys being immature. It'll probably be cool, but you may get the talk *cringes*
the girls that posted should help with the whole mom thing, but a guys point of view on the first kiss thing, its way easier than you think. i'm sure you see people making out at school, its as easy as watching it. ( i don't watch it, that's weird lol) but you know what i mean. lol
good luck :)
No, it's not wrong to date someone his age, you just have to be careful.
Just be honest with her, and tell her, tell her about him, and let her meet him if she wants, to see he's really just a nice guy.
Tell her when she's in a good mood to.
Hope this helps :)
Not necessarily.
I think it depends on who the guy is.. My mom's bff's son is older than me (I'm 13), and I really think she'd be happy for me to date him.
It depends on how much you trust/know the guy..
brake up with him! omg thats weird!
Yes it's wrong to date someone who's 17! If he turns 18 and you're still dating him when you're only 15 and have a sexual intercourse it's illegal!
Edit: Wow, 5 thumbs down, I'm hurt. Just think of what can happen: guys at 17 are sometimes mainly sexually active and can persuade/pressure a girl to have sex with him. In most places, if he's 18 and she isn't, it's illegal. In some, if he's 16 and she's below, it's illegal. It doesn't matter if it's ';only 3 years';. If he was 16 and she was 13 or whatever, it would be no big deal, he'd have years to go before he becomes too old- the same if she was 18 and he was 21, it'd be no big deal because they're both of age. Even if she gives him consent, it'd be considered rape by law.
So here are my questions
1. How do I tell her? When?
2. Is it wrong to date someone his age?
I need advice on my first kiss too, please and thank you haha (:I need some advice on a few things? (Teens pleaase)?
well first of all you have to make sure that your mom approves of you dating. If your not aloud to date until your 16 then i wouldn't tell her at all. I know i had little boy friends when i was 13 to 16 and i never told my mom or dad cuz they would have never let me go out. But when i turned 16 i had a bf and he was 20. My parents were pretty cool with it.
They gave me the whole ';sex talk'; lol and a curfew. All i did was like mom i met this really hot guy last night.. i think i like him and i know he likes me. we wanna go out for diner and a movie friday night. Do you think it would be ok. And she would tell me as long as he comes and picks you up and you give us a # where you can be reached go ahead and be safe. So it was pretty easy.
I don't think the age difference is a big thing.. its only 3 years. My hubby and I have 4.5 years difference.
As for your first kiss.. make sure you have breath mints! lol :)
Also just lean into him kinda thing, place one hand on his cheek/ear/head and close your eyes once you know that your nose is not in the way! open your mouth a little and kiss him! lol you can add a little bit of tongue if ya want.. just make it soft!! :)
Hope this helps! Good Luck Have Fun! and don't worry to much about mom! :)I need some advice on a few things? (Teens pleaase)?
He's only 3 years older. xD
Personally I wouldn't want to be dating a guy my age since they're all really immature (1 month till I'm 14 ^^)
My mom wouldn't care cuz she went out with the seniors as a freshman. xD I think you should just tell her now before you get super serious and if she says something about his age just say the thing about 14 yr old guys being immature. It'll probably be cool, but you may get the talk *cringes*
the girls that posted should help with the whole mom thing, but a guys point of view on the first kiss thing, its way easier than you think. i'm sure you see people making out at school, its as easy as watching it. ( i don't watch it, that's weird lol) but you know what i mean. lol
good luck :)
No, it's not wrong to date someone his age, you just have to be careful.
Just be honest with her, and tell her, tell her about him, and let her meet him if she wants, to see he's really just a nice guy.
Tell her when she's in a good mood to.
Hope this helps :)
Not necessarily.
I think it depends on who the guy is.. My mom's bff's son is older than me (I'm 13), and I really think she'd be happy for me to date him.
It depends on how much you trust/know the guy..
brake up with him! omg thats weird!
Yes it's wrong to date someone who's 17! If he turns 18 and you're still dating him when you're only 15 and have a sexual intercourse it's illegal!
Edit: Wow, 5 thumbs down, I'm hurt. Just think of what can happen: guys at 17 are sometimes mainly sexually active and can persuade/pressure a girl to have sex with him. In most places, if he's 18 and she isn't, it's illegal. In some, if he's 16 and she's below, it's illegal. It doesn't matter if it's ';only 3 years';. If he was 16 and she was 13 or whatever, it would be no big deal, he'd have years to go before he becomes too old- the same if she was 18 and he was 21, it'd be no big deal because they're both of age. Even if she gives him consent, it'd be considered rape by law.
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