Saturday, December 19, 2009

What advice would you give to teens concerning relationships and the opposite sex?

like love,sex,dating, crushes ectWhat advice would you give to teens concerning relationships and the opposite sex?
Ok, well...


Some boys will say anything to you to try and have sex. Don't fall for it.


Yes you can fall in love at a young age, but depending on how mature you are tells you if you're ready for a commitment or not.


Don't just date anyone. Date someone you're interested in, even if it's not a whole lot.


The best way to get over a crush is with time and eventually liking someone else.What advice would you give to teens concerning relationships and the opposite sex?
Love:isn't immediate it takes time. Those feelings within the first month of the relationship is infatuation/lust. Love takes time to grow. Until you love yourself you can't love someone. Love is trust and respect.


Sex:Is a big step in a relationship and should be talked about before. Talk about your sexual past and how willing your are to going. Boundaries are good. Also when you have sex you need to be able to respect the responsibility that comes with if you get pregnant. Sex is a big descion which I would hold off until at least dating for 4 or more months.


Dating:Before jumping into a realtionship you should hang out for more than a week. you need to make sure it will last and not just end within a week


crushes:they come and go but are fun while they last
Love: You need to learn the difference between puppy love and true love. Do you love them because they are good looking, or because they have a good personality?


Sex: Only have sex when you feel that you are completely ready to. Don't let anyone try to rush you into something you don't want to do. If they don't want to wait for you then they aren't worth it and don't really love you, just your body.


Dating: Don't feel obligated to say yes to someone when they ask you out. If they do and you aren't sure tell them that. Let them know that you would like to get to know them a bit better to see if you two are compatible.


Crushes: They will come and go, if you are crushing on someone and they don't seem to like you back then who cares? Move on. There's plenty of other people out there that are worth your time.
The only advice l'd give is USE A CONDOM! We can't stop Teenagers having sex, it's up to them what they want to do with their body, and what to learn about the consequences, but all l can say is just use a condom, or when your doing it on a regular basis (having sex), getting a better protection method would be easier, such as the Pill, implant, UTD, etc. For drugs, l would probably tell them the dangers, and the people that has been on them, too (like my uncle, he died from an overdose), and give them this website here to look through http://www.talktofrank.com/ lt has alot of information about drugs.





Hope this helps :)
Always use a condom if you insist upon having sex.





Never think that having a baby at a young age is great - they completely take over your life and deserve to have parents who are stable and earn enough to care properly for them.





Boys will say anything to get you into bed.
Take your time. There is no rush to have sex, or fall in love. Enjoy being a teenager. Date and get to know people. This will help you to learn more about what kind of partner would be right for you, so that when you are ready to commit and get more serious, it will be with the right person. A little patience now can save a hell of a lot of heartache later on.
i would say not to rush into things too fast. dont get too hung up on 'love' until u know it is real. often it can feel like love when really it is just a crush. if u do decide to have sex use contraception everytime.
BEING A VIRGIN WHEN YOU GET MARRIED IS THE COOLEST, RESPECTABLE-EST THING EVER.


Wait till marriage so your sweet husband can be the first one.


Don't get pressured into things you don't want to do. no matter how much they're paying you.
biggest advice, don't have sex until you have found someone you can spend your life with. Too many people give away their most precious part for nothing.
If you are being treated bad then leave the other person and don't have sex unless you are physically and mentally ready
Do what is best for you not what is best for your partner. You can always find other partners.
as a girl don't give it up. as a guy try to get it as much as you can.
If you date someone then dont have sex with them till you feel ready
don't have sex until marriage.
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dont try to grow up so fast. once you do there is no turning back
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