Advice from other teens: i dont know what to do?

i stopped being friends wdon'tthis one girl because she was kind of a bad influence because she was a slu*... she has been coming up to me and acting like we are best friends again. A lot of people have said that she has been crying at school. Even though i don't want to be friends with her again i feel bad for her. Do i help her or not?





Im stuck. You never stop caring for somebody that you were close to. But i don't want to hang out with her again. Do be the better person and talk to her again or what?





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btw i put it in this section becuase i know there is lots of teens in here..becauseAdvice from other teens: i dont know what to do?
Well she was probably crying, because she noticed what she was doing, and knew it was wrong. I think you should talk to her. Tell her whats going on. Ask what she would do if she was in your position. Tell her how you feel. If she accepts it then she`s a true Friend. Tell her how she has affected you, but what ever you do don't`t lie to her, because she will never change. Tell her how she`s really acting. Show her. DON`T feel bad for her!! Tell her the Absolute truth, and if it doesn't work out then move on. You will find better, and tell her to stop acting like that she will get hurt one day.





Hope this helps!!


Bye!!Advice from other teens: i dont know what to do?
Maybe shes feeling a little bit guilty about wht shes doing...i mean you cant help someone like her....oh boy lemme tell you i tried helping someone like that turns out she never changed at all...i was completely distorted but i mean you shouldnt have to wrry about people like her bc i'm pretty sure you have other things that you must deal with. She must help herself
I dont think you should be frineds with her just because you feel bad for her. you cant let her guilt you into that...until you see that she has changed for the better for you. you should remain aquantinces until she is ready to step up into a sensible friend!
you are her friend and u will always be tied 2gether by friendship even if she is doing bad things u were friends once and u need to be there 4 her and encourage her to be better. Help her through whatever she is going through. it may fix her and ur friendship!
if she needs help help her if you know right from wrong you should be ok and when you see her doing so thing she should'nt tell her she might not want to hear it but if you want to help her so be it WE LEARN FROM ARE MISTAKES
Maybe if you're her friend you can help her change her ways.
Talk to her. The only way to check a rumor is to go to the source. Ask her if something is wrong. If something is, and you don't do anything, that's also (well, I think so) morally wrong. If someones hurting, and no one else is doing anything about it except spreading tales about her, then you should take some initiative and do something.


Asking her if she's feeling crappy doesn't mean you have to be friends with her again. Maybe you can revert to being acquaintances again. Try and start over. Keep her at an arms length away.


But anything is better than doing nothing.