[Teens] I need your advice. Please?

Well theres this guy, we're super close friends. I met him a few months ago (about April), and since then we talk everyday, whenever I'm home. I usually stay up late into the night just talking to him on the phone/instant messenger. He says he misses me if we dont talk for more than a day ^-^





I know its not in person yada yada yada.. But he's not a pedo or anything, yay for webcam. we're just friends, really close friends.





He has low self esteem and frequently says 'When we meet you'll hate me,' 'You deserve better.' etc. (We were supposed to meet at the zoo next week.)





And last night he says to me, out of nowhere 'You deserve better, I care about you alot.. I'd only hurt you. I'm sorry, Good luck with everything.'





Now he's blocked me, wont reply to my txts/emails and wouldnt answer the phone when I called.





Dont tell me to give up, I wont.





I just wanted to know if I should wait a few weeks, then call/email again?


If so, when? A week, two weeks, three?





Or should I just show up at his house and start to cry uncontrollably? lol





I really need help, I cant stop crying. :([Teens] I need your advice. Please?
okay...this is gonna sound weird, but id actually be seriously concerned about him. withdrawal is a major sign of depression/suicide.





you should talk to him about this...and get him help if possible[Teens] I need your advice. Please?
My friend went through the same thing.


UNFORTUNATELY, the reason the guy did that was because he had other girls in mind and didn't want to dump her like a douchebag. We found out by my friend making another account and seeing his status and profile and all that.


She was heart broken.
well first of all i think you should give it a few weeks. you should try to contact his friend or someone he knows and ask them to see whats going on. sorry, i dont really have any solutions for you :( . the fact that he keeps saying that you deserve better obviously means that he has low self esteem. this is just a thought, but maybe he blocked you because he didnt want to hurt you or maybe hes got a girlfriend and dosnt want to hurt you or his girlfriend (these are just random thoughts). and i think crying is just going to make it worse, sure you should think about him but crying isnt going to do you any better





i really hope it works out :(
Well he knows he better not as he will do things he should not and he blocked you so you do not meet as he would and could end up in jail when you got caught,. He is being smart so do nmot keep on! Go find a guy ioff line thats a teen and have a teen life. This is dangerous and you need let it go!!!!!!!!!!! Besides you said your just friends. Would you let your mom meet him? Would you tell your mom your going to meet him.? Would you share what he says with your mom? Then if you answered no to any of these you are in the wrong path and about to hget hurt!!!! My daughter was raped doing this and was missing for a day. It was so scarry and scared her to death. She thought after she was in the car and he brought a friend took her top 4 countys and when she got in the car she was made to lay down. Yeah that was a friend that she met on line and talked so sweet to her and had her so convinced that she was a great friend. So no do not do it !!!!!