15 yrs old boy going to his first date?what are the do,s and the do not,s?Parents what should be your advice to your teen?
Do:
- Pick her up at her house and go in so that you can meet her parents. Introduce yourself to her parents, shake their hands, and look them in the eye. And don't worry if you're nervous, you're SUPPOSED to be nervous. How the heck do you think they feel?! That's they're little princess you're taking out.
- Respect her parents and their rules. If they say ';have her home by 10pm'; have her home at 9:45pm. It will increase your chances of being able to go on a second date with her. And walk her to her door. Nothing irked my parents more than a boy who would just ';drop off and run';.
- Dress nicely. You're trying to impress your date, not get on a music video. Wear pants that fit properly at the waist and a nice button down dress shirt. If you feel especially daring, wear a tie. And skip the sneakers just for tonight and wear nice dress shoes.
Don't:
- Go to the movies on your first date. You'll never get to know her if you have to sit in silence next to her in a dark movie theater. Go some place you can both enjoy. Depending on where you live and the climate, maybe an arcade or bowling alley (in which case, you can dress down a little. Think: khaki pants and a polo shirt). Ice or roller skating might be a nice experience plus it gives you an excuse to hold on to her to keep her from falling (or to keep you from falling, whichever works). Maybe there's a cool museum nearby, head there. At least it will give you something to talk about (heck, you can always make fun of the exhibits)
- Don't make any moves on her. Hugs are about as far as you should expect it to go on the first date (maybe a kiss on the cheek if you are so inclined). You're going to be nervous enough, so take the pressure off of yourself and just know that you'll offer her a hug at the end of the date.
- Don't brag to all your friends and the mailman if things go well. You'll just end up looking like a jerk and no one wants to go on a second date with a jerk.
- Don't be disrespectful to her just because you're friends told you to or you read it somewhere. Compliment her on something not attached to her ';T %26amp; A'; if you know what I mean. ';You look really pretty tonight'; is good. ';You clean up nice'; is not.Parents what should be your advice to your teen?
Never try to score on the first date, first dates are generally for getting to know each other better. You can find good qualities in a person by just talking. find their interests. you can hold her hand and that's as far it should go. Kiss her on the cheek when you say your good nights. most importantly, have fun and definitely make her laugh. A girl loves to laugh and smile. Don't bore her.
Do be respecful and nice, the way i raised you to be, and how you know you should act towards women.
Don't be doing things you know you shouldn't do!
Do be a gentleman.
Do ask appropriate questions.
Do smile.
Do offer to pay.
Do act as if Mom is watching!
Do not make her uncomfortable.
Do not ';show off.';
Do not ignore her.
Tip well
Compliment her
Aks her lots of questions. When a girl talks a lot it usually means shes comfortable and into you.
But most of all, tell him good luck.
be respectful , ask your date about her ,or him likes and hobbies, and just relax and see what happens !
Be yourself, respect girls, treat them well, no pressures on her or yourself, relax and have fun.
Open the door for her, don't try to kiss, be yourself.
Don't try to convince your date to do something she doesn't want to.
Be Yourself
Have Fun
Don't kiss her on the first date.
';Don't hit the jackpot';.
Don't do drugs and sex
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