There is this boy I like, Donte is his name he is about 18 months older than me. I don't know how to just walk up and talk to him without looking like a stupid person. He is black and I am white which is why I haven't told my parent because I don't think my dad would let me see him because of that he doesnt hate black people he just dont think I should date or marry one. I really like him and I just don't know what to do please help me. Any advice will help
I mean I really really like him. the first time I seen him he walked over to me and I asked him how old he was and his name. and he told me.
I dont care about race either that does not make a person. but my father would not let me see him and i would have to sneek around to see him.Help! any teens please give me advice!?
Hi. I'm not a teen, but I am a college student who is white and am engaged to marry a black man.
Your dad may not hate black people, but there is obviously quite a bit of racism there if he expects you not to date/marry someone of a different race. Although this is a tricky situation sometimes with parents (on both sides of the fence), there are always ways to work around this issue.
First of all, be friends with this guy and bring him around the house to meet your family. If they get to know him and see that he is a nice, quality guy, the odds are greater that they will accept him later as a boyfriend.
You can message me if you want to ask me anything else.
Good luckHelp! any teens please give me advice!?
just figure out something you have in common and talk to him about it :) its really easy :) im white and a black guy liked me, and i kind of liked him too. my dad flipped out and threatened to send me to montana. so just talk to him, race doesn't matter, all that matters is how you feel , if you two actually get serious your dad will get past it. he will want you to be happy.
EDIT: ^i live in montana, thank u^
When you walk by him, make sure you poke him or at least touch him and go ';hey';.
Guys normally pick up after that. When he says hey to you, sey hey back. take your phone everywhere with you, so when he gets his out, go ';you have a phone? i need your number'; like its no big deal.
dont think of him as';Donte the god'; more like ';donte the cute guy';
If your dad wants you to be happy, he should be able to overcome his racism and let you date who you want. As long as the guy makes you happy and doesn't hurt you, what's the problem? Ask your dad that question and see if his answer is justifiable.
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