so me and her are over at my friends house watching a movie and shes sitting next to me. we had kinda been flirting during the movie so she keeps leaning in over her armrest and i guess she was waiting for me to make a move. I tried like ten times and didn't know what i was doing so i guess i wasn't saying the right things so then she'd seem to lose interest and she'd just kinda go back to sitting on her seat like normal. Then we'd flirt some more she'd get back practically hanging over my armrest then i'd mess up and she'd lose interest. This honestly must have happened at least 6 times and have no idea what to do here.
Please help me.
Note I'm 15 so i'm not doing anything that could be considered offensive. Another thing is i know i'm gonna get at least one answer saying just compliment her but like whenever if i try to compliment her i feel its just like gonna come off as creepy. i don't really know how to explain it but i just don't know how to make it not be awkward.
TEENS I NEED SOME ADVICE?!?!?
Well coming from a girl, who has been in the same situation as you. She probably ISNT losing interest, she is more than likely thinking she is looking dumb, or thinking you dont like her. We tend to bash on ourselves, idk why, we do though. So make a move, not a mac daddy move, a subtle sweet one, like complimenting somthing she did the other day. DO NOT compliment on the FOLLOWING things...
Dont compliment on.....
How she smells, it WILL come out weird and make you sound stalkerish.
2. DONT compliment on our weight....just dont.
Some great things to compliment are.....
1.how she laughs, she will probably say she hates her laugh..but really she is glad you like it.
2.her smile, again, she will say she hates it, but go ahead and do it anyways.TEENS I NEED SOME ADVICE?!?!?
you should of tried to make a move. next time put your arm around her, hold her hand, or atleast play with her hair or something. lol you're so innocent it's adoreable. now make sure you flirt with her so she stays interested in you and doesn't feel like she's wasting her time.
if you c tat she is intrested even for a second and you 2 are flirting then make a move on her just not a drastic one put your hand around her but not on her then move your hand lower and lower till you get 2 her shoulder .
if you now how im explaining it
good luck
im also 15 so ya
Well, i would put your arms around her because then she will lean it closer and you two will end up cuddling. Than when your ready or think that the time is right kiss her. But seriously cuddling is the best and it is a really good first move.
lean towards her and move your hand toward hers, then slowly tickle her hand. If she likes you, she will get the picture and hold your hand
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next time, just go for it. don't try to be smooth, or anything. just look at he then go for it! :) please help me :)
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Just flirt with her. The awkwardness will wear off when she notices that you are reciprocating. Then you can ask if she wants to hang out with you again if all goes well.
just keep being nice and being normal and maybe put your arm around her?
good luck!
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Pull the old yawn and grab. Just yawn and put your arm around her. it's unbelievably corny, but somehow they usually just look past it.
just put your am around her dude lol,
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go for it
whats the worst that could happen.... yall arent dating she cant break up with you for it
shes def interested.... she could be one of those girls who like making you chase them...... that is pretty much every girl lol
just take a deep breath and give her a kiss. if she says no then you dont loose anything she wasnt your girlsfriend before the kiss anyways so you either win or things remain the same
I think she wants to kiss if you are nervous tell her you are nervous.
just play it out. shes practically throwing herself at you
just keep trying
Just relax. You're nervous, I know you are. I've felt that same way too with my girlfriend (well, before she became my girlfriend). She gave me hints that I should make a move, but I didn't. I just kept telling myself to be myself, and relax. Next time she and her friends came over for a movie, I made my move. (It was a sad love movie) I put my arm around her and she just leaned on me. After the movie, she told me that she had fallen in love with me and that I did the right thing.
So bottomline, just be yourself and relax! You can put your arm around her if you want or just talk to her (flirt). Aside from that, you could ask her friends if she likes you. If she does, then make your move! Don't be scared, if she does reject you, then don't take it in so much. There are a lot of other girls there in the world.
Good luck!
i remember this situation. She wants you to make a move but she doesn't want it to be awkward either so she keeps going back. Keep trying. Putting your arm around her would be a good move. or if thats too much then just put your arm up against hers and even tho it sounds odd i love this just grab the like side of her thumb or finger and like rub your finger back and forth. she'll probably fix her hand in yours. if she doesn't just do it your self. After you get that far then make sure to keep going and to keep making moves until she is comfortable to do this herself.
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