Advice from other teens: i dont know what to do?

i stopped being friends with this one girl because she was kind of a bad influence because she was a slu*... she has been coming up to me and acting like we are best friends again. A lot of people have sad that she has been crying at school. Even though i don't want to be friends with her again i feel bad for her. Do i help her or not?





Im stuck. You never stop caring for somebody that you were close to. But i don't want to hang out with her again. Do be the better person and talk to her again or what?





:(Advice from other teens: i dont know what to do?
It really is a toss up, because on one hand you have this girl who really wants to be your friend, but on the other you don't agree with her lifestyle choices. I think you should strike up a balance between the two. You don't have to hang out with her outside of school, but be kind to her inside school. But first I think you should talk to her and sort things out. You need to find out where you both stand in your friendship and figure out if you want to fix this, and how.


I hope this helps, good luck :]Advice from other teens: i dont know what to do?
When you have a friend that's a bad influence on you, and you know it, it's always really hard to figure out where you stand. But know, that just because she isn't the definition of ';good girl'; doesn't mean she's going to turn you into something you don't want to me. You're only influenced if you want to be. For all you know, you could be just the right influence that SHE needs. You could change her life for the better without changing a thing about yourself.





Many people have probably had the same question about this girl. She just needs someone to care for her, especially when she's having a hard time in life. I would say, definitely try and help her. She probably doesn't have to many people jumping at the chance to help her and you could be just what she needs. She doesn't have to influence you if you don't want her to. Be the influence on her that she needs.