TEENS I NEED SOME ADVICE!!!!!?

my boyfriend has been acting like a jerk lately. he used to be really sweet and hold doors open, carry my backpack, text me all the time, etc but now he started showing off and acting like a total jerk to my friends and me like yelling out inappropriate things trying to kiss me all the time and stuf like that (im 15 years old by the way) should i dump him?TEENS I NEED SOME ADVICE!!!!!?
It sounds like hes trying to push you away because he isn't mature enough to break it off himself.TEENS I NEED SOME ADVICE!!!!!?
Ask him what his issue is! And if he says he doesn't have one tell him that you included a lot of your friends have been noticing him being a total jerk off to you. If he still denies something being wrong wait a couple days and see if he has changed at all in the way he is acting. If nothing seems to change try saying to him that you don't deserve this kind of treatment and if he does really like you then he should start showing it again or else you're walking and finding someone who will treat you the way you should be treated! And sometimes guys start acting different cause your acting different, just throwing that out there.
Figure out a reason why he might be doing it. It might be that he thinks he already ';has you'; if thats so dump him teach him a lesson but not teach him a lesson in a negative way actually teach him a lesson meaning get him to be more appropriate so he won't do this to other girls later in life what he is doing now to you. But don't exclude the possibility that he thinks you are doing something mean. Or possibly he is stressed out and he trusts you enough that he doesn't think he needs to sugarcoat what he is feeling





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Try and correct his problem and if it doesn't work out break up with him if he is acting that way after you try and help him. Dump him you deserve better
i would before you get even further into the relationship. if you are thinking about it now, chances are you will later. only later you will be more attached and dating longer so it makes it harder. i wanted to dump a guy and kept dating him and it got harder and harder because i got attached and then i did it but it hurt me more than it would have if i just would have done it at first.
You just want to talk to him face to face, say why are you acting so different latley. You've changed and see what he says. Although control the outcome, if he says its because of you try to work it out with him. Although if he just mocks you and acts like ';what the hell are you talking about!!?';. Just say like well if u cant take this seriously, then obviously dont take me seriously. You've changed and were finished.





Hope ive helped
Heeey, i can so relate to this


now sometimes guys just act all mean in public cause they like to prove that there the boss of you lol, but dont let that happen dont let him yell at you!!! Now i really think you should talk to him about it, because he wont change if he thinks hes doing nothing wrong, with you telling him he will realize that hes hurting you and change and if he dosnt change and dosnt respect you well then you should dump him and get someone who cares about how you feel


good luck! %26lt;3
Well, if you haven't had sex yet( don't) he is trying to get you to sleep with him. Pretty soon, he will say sleep with me or we are over.Don't do it just for some jerk that will wind up dumping you when its over.OR he may like one of your friends and is trying to impress them








I think that its time to confront this fella' and give him a piece of your mind.





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A sudden change usually means something is up. Perhaps one of his guy friends gave him some crappy advice about how he needs to be more of a man with you or something? I'd say talk to him first. Figure out if there's something behind it. If not, dump him for sure. People shouldn't be treated like that by others.
If you're only 15 then just dump him. You have your whole life ahead of you to find the guy that will act nice like that all the time. Or at least until you get married. And if you dump him maybe he'll realize that he's making a mistake and come back to you. Or if not then he isn't worth your time anyways. Like I said your only 15 you got a lot of time.
Guys just get like that to show their friends how cool they are and how tough and strong ect.Theya re just looking for attention when they do that i think you should talk to him about it becuase youa lsoe dont know whats on his mind but if he countinues end it because his friends or wahtever the case may be is really getting to him
i think that he's trying to get YOU to dump him the way that your describing things. it seems like hes just being like that to be cool. maybe he does'nt want to be with you but he doesnt want to hurt you so he's trying to give you reasons to break up with him.


try talking things out with him.
first try talking to him. if he ignores it or makes no attempt in trying to talk about it. then threaten him. and tell him ig he dosent get it together then you'll dump him. then he'll realize how much you mean to him and get it together... or he'll let you dump him.
here's what I would say..


What the hell is wrong with you?? well you try to kiss me like ever sec. on the sec. give me some space please but a kiss here and there would be nice but you is actin like a$$ what is wrong with you??





well if you don't like it my way then flip the script you kno like all the things he's doning do back tyo him kiss him EVERY MILLE- SECOND ON THE MILLESECOND! BE A JERK AROUND HIS FRIENDS DON'T PICK UP UR PHONE KISS HIM EVERY DAY BRING HIM LUNCH BE ANNOYING then he'll get the idea remeber FLIP THE SCRIPT!!
well that happens a lot with young relationships... is he older? well all i can tell ya is you should talk to him and ask him why he is different and maybe he hasnt noticed so he will try to be better or maybe its the way he really is so you should consider breaking it off with him



This is coming from a 15 year old guy with a lot of experience with women... and i regret to tell you... he might not like you anymore. I wouldn't go up to him and be like ';Hey, do you still like me?';. But if he treats you like that and there's no sign of him being his old self.... DUMP HIM.
he might not have noticed that he is treating you like that .. as someone else said he might be stressed out .. you should just sit down and talk to him about it and see what happens from there





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dont be in such a rush to end something that you think works. let him kno how you feel. tell him b4 the yahoo answers universe. if he doesnt change his ways then he obviously doesnt care about you, the relationship, or your feelings. then its time to call it quits
I would say talk to him about it first. And if he says things that you don't like and if he sounds like he is making it up, then dump him. But try talking to him first, if talking doesn't help, then just go on with your life. I'm 15 too.
he was prolly being nice and sweet so you would fall for him.


so your not gonna leave him if he does dumb things.


and if he already got in your pants, thats prolly why he is being a jerk.


i would talk to him about it.
Yes. There is no reason for him to act that way if he is your boyfriend. Maybe he is trying to prove something by acting tough? It doesn't matter though because if he doesn't treat you with respect why should you respect him?
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You need to talk to him , asking why he is being a jerk . If he has a good reason try and help him through it and sort it out . If he doesn't just dump him because hes not worth your time.
ask him if somethings bothering him or if he's worried that he's not giving you enough attention. Just ask him he might be stressed but if he's not then he's just being a jerk and you should dump him. Hope i helped! Good Luck!
it looks to me like he wants attention.either that or he just wants to show you off like a trophy. confront him, and if his excuse is no good. dump him, find somebody who actually cares about you.
Yes you should, I'm a 16 yr old guy and I know that he just thinks its cool to act like he doesn't care, now that he thinks he has you. Don't let him do that to you.
depends on how much you like him. if you like him a lot, then talk it over with him. but also remember he is a guy and that is what we do sometimes. its our way of showing off
Argh i know how you feel, boys will be boys. he may just be trying to show off and yeah maybe having trouble at home or whatever- talk to him see what he has to say, if he carried on like this then you deserve better =)x
Think about your relationship with him. Would you want to spend the rest of your life like that? There's no point in going on with it if you honestly believe you have no future with him.
Well he's either becoming not interested anymore, or he's just changing, either one, I think you should dump him, because he may soon make you do something you really don't want him too.
i don't think u should really dump him..u can talk 2 him..tell him things u liked in him before nd that u can't find these things anymore..it's ur right 2 tell him how u feel about him. I think a sweet conversation may help ! =)
First, you should TALK to him.


Why does no one talk to one another anymore? :/


The reason many relationships fail is because of lack of communication about feelings.