so i am/was (don't really kow right now!) friends with this girl but recently we have started distancing.
although, i dont know why, but im a bit mad cause it was my birthday on the first and she didnt say happy birthday at all. no call, emal or message or anything.
how would you feel? would you be a bit mad?
what do you think she is thinking, and what would you do if you were me?
thanks so muchAdvice from teens please?
Its not worth it i mean you are 16 you have a life to live and this one girl is not important enough to make you stop living it you should have other friends and you should just keep your attention on them...If she comes back to you then then you can decide if you want to be friends with her again.
Hope this helped!Advice from teens please?
If it was only about forgetting a Birthday and not calling you, then I think you have to let this just go. BUT, If for example, you guys haven't seen each other in a while (1 month or more), you make the effort to call and see if they want to hang out, and they don't answer, than seems like they aren't really your true friend. Just let him/her leave. It's not like 1 person is going to ruin your life. :)
Well, if she didn't bother to call you on your birthday, then she probably has some kind of chip on her shoulder for you. If you really care about your friend and want to save your friendship...do your part. call her and try to talk to her, meet up with her and ask her where it went wrong.
If she doesn't want to do that, then just move on and appreciate the friends you have now. Friends come and go, may be she isn't the kind of friend you had once or should have now.
(luckly I'm 19 so i guess that still counts as a teen.)
Sounds like what I went through with one of my best friends. You have every right to be a bit irked. But try to understand where she's coming from, she may have been so flustered or caught up in her own world that she forgot. If she's a really good friend, you should have lunch with her or something, so you can get reacquainted. You might find out what was going on the day of your birthday.
Maybe she forgot or something came up so she wasn't able to call you. I know I was hurt when my mom didn't call for my 16th birthday and I told her too!! But no, your not wrong for feeling that way.
sometimes these situations show you who your real friends are.
did she know it was yor b day? if not then dont be mad, if she di.... then you are able to be mad.....
its not a big deal. b days dont mean much to me, they are just excuses to demand presents
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