Parenting advice on teens and drugs?

ok this is the situation i found a half of joint in my 14 year olds room and i dont no what to say to him or do i mean he is grounded for the summer and as far as talking to him i dont no what to say because i cant even look at him with out crying i had heard rumors of him being in a gang and smoking ciggaretts i asked him about them things and he said they werent true and i had no reason to doubt him because his grades were always good and he always came home on time but now i no that i was to trusting (i think) and also hes always been so into sports and stuff too he always made the baseball team at school and everything so i just want to know what i can say to make him actually listen to me and to make him understand the harmful things that drugs can do to him and his future the only thing i have said to him so far is son you know i love you right and then i have to walk away cause i start crying because iam so in schock i never thought in a million years i would find somthing like that in his room so please any advice is welcomedParenting advice on teens and drugs?
I would be mad. I'd be sitting in the living room with the joint waiting for him. Give him the ';you are in so much trouble'; look and show him the joint and see what he says. That will at least get the conversation started. Me, personally...I would have my child's ***.Parenting advice on teens and drugs?
Calm down it's only a half a joint, he's not snorting heroin.





Explain to him that weed will have an affect on his performance in sports, tell him that you love him and not to do it again.





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don't be so sad! it's the 21st century....A LOT of kids smoke weed...not saying a lotta kids dont because..alotta kids don't...but its not the end of the world! u just need to set more boundries with your son...(earlier curfew..right home after school..meet his friends etc) good luck