Thursday, December 31, 2009

I need advice! From teens kids adults! Help?

Ok so here is the deal. So im going into the 8th grade, and my parents are divorced. Mom lives in FL and dad lives in NY. Before they split we all lived in NY. I live year round in FL (with mom, but visted dad every other month) So this hole summer im with my dad in NY,but I want to stay in NY with my dad and go to school here. I love my mom and all, but i really want to stay in NY. What should I do, I even pray to lord to let me live in NY. PS: i left NY at the end of 6th grade and went to 7th in fl. someone please help.I need advice! From teens kids adults! Help?
The best advice I can give you is to discuss it with your mother first. Let her know that you wanting to go school in NY has nothing to do with the way you feel about her. Make up a ';Pro'; list about school in NY and point out all the good things about it. Then tell her that you want to try it for just a year and see how it goes, if it doesn't work out you can always come home, right?


After you get your mom to okay it you'll have to talk to dad. He might not be ready or able to take on a teenage girl just yet, but dad's are always wrapped around their little girl's finger so i'm sure you'll have no trouble with him.I need advice! From teens kids adults! Help?
you need to discuss this with your mom. you need to explain to her that you love her very much, and that you love to spend time with her, but that you honestly believe the better situation for you is living in New York with your dad and your friends. you need to calmly and rationally explain your feelings about the situation, and if she genuinely cares about you, she'll have to at least consider it.
try and convince your mom hope she will respect your feelings

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