I agree, I avoid giving advice because I know no one will like my advice, its always the same ';save it for marriage then figure out what you like with your spouse, enjoy the learning curve';
But like I said, no one wants to hear that these days so I've stopped saying it.Why are we giving teens sex advice????
well, frankly, i believe that these kids are going to do what they're going to do, regardless of what we tell them here on Y! Answers. so my position is, it's better that they are informed of the risks, and told how to protect themselves rather than get faulty information from somewhere else.
however, I do agree with you that many of them are too young, and that it is sad that our society has come to this. all we can hope for is that the next generation become more aware of the situation and inform their children early of the possible consequences so that they will want to wait to give up their virginity. it's our only hope.
If I suspect that a person is underaged then I will not answer their question. But I would like to say one thing once a teen-ager has it in their mind to have sex almost nothing will stop them, preaching abstinace to teens is useless, the best thing we can do is teach them how to protect themselves from diseases and preganacy.
Remember you were a teen once so was I and I know that I explored sex with other people as well as myself.
No. I think it's wrong to not give kids knowledge of these things. They need to know about pregnancy so they can protect themselves. Why shouldn't a teen know about orgasms? There is nothing wrong with an orgasm. It's a perfectly normal, natural thing, and you don't even need to have sex to have one. Knowledge never hurt anyone. Sometimes it's just easier to ask questions anonymously for them, I'm sure. Asking an adult questions about sex is embarrassing for a teen.
Most of the people on here aren't passing out information to people to innocent to have it. Posters who answer those questions are either people like you, who cut and paste their 'wait for marraige' answer, or people like me who try to figure out why they would ask the question. People who clearly don't understand what they are asking don't get straight answers.
So, you don't think kids should know how to get pregnant? And since they shouldn't have sex, they sure shouldn't know how to enjoy it, so don't teach them about orgasms? I just don't get it. If parents would teach their kids about these things, they wouldn't be asking on the internet. They need someone to give them straight answers--most posts I've read here do not give out information too advanced for the asker.
maybe they dont feel comfortable talking to their parents.... Get over it! the average age they start getting curious is about 12 or 13......
well yes and no yes some of these teens are 2 young me personally think that if someone asks it then they should be able to handle it i am only 16 but i think the whole teen sex thing is overated untill you find out how serious it really is like me i was raped 14 years old and ever seince then i have been taking a different veiw on the whole sex matter by thinking about getting engaged before you have sex
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