Friday, January 8, 2010

I need advice from mothers with teens?

okay i'm ten weeks pregnant yeah i don't know how to tell my mom.... how would you want your daughter to tell you and how do you think you'll take it. that ur daughter who is an AP student and JROTC cadet is pregnant.... i'm from a very well respected family in Alabama.... so i really don't know how she's gonna take itI need advice from mothers with teens?
Well I'm a mother of only a 6 week old, BUT.





I got pregnant when I was 20, I was also an AP student in high school, and am a 3rd year engineering student in college. Family thought of me as a ';goodie 2 shoes'; When I got pregnant I gave myself a headache for a few days on how I would tell my mother. I just gave up and told her right away one day. I was around 5 weeks. She said she preferred it that way...the fact that I had told her so soon.





So I'm going to tell you to just tell her as soon as possible. The longer you wait the worse she will react. She may be shocked at first but if she is a mother in her right mind, she will do nothing in the end but love and support you. Good luck and congrats.I need advice from mothers with teens?
accidents happen...if your mother is how you say she is then just tell '; mom i know i made a mistake im pregnant and i need help...tell her your sorry..she sounds like a nice women so i dont think she will beat you or put you ont the street..she will be upset and disapointed but that will pass..she is gonna be a grandparent and it may take a few weeks but she will be happy about it...you have to be honest with her and tell her everything ...





good luck
Try to break it to her as gently as you can. Don't pull the whole ';Okay, I'm gonna tell you something and you cannot get mad, okay?'; she's going to be upset no matter what, so brace yourself for that before you even talk to her. What you basically have to work on is the calming her down with whatever reassurances you may have. You work, you're responsible, you're gonna take care of it, etc.. You could also discuss options you may have. (I'll suggest adoption but, if you chose otherwise that's on you.) Then go from there. Best of luck! Congrats!
No matter how well you word it she is going to be upset. But eventually she will get over it.
Don't just flat out tell your mom, sit her down %26amp; discuss it w/ her. She may be upset, angry, or in denial. I'm 19 %26amp; my dad's baby girl (or was), and he wasn't angry or upset w/ me.. What he told me was, ';I wish you could have waited.'; I told him this on Monday, and heck now he's telling me what to eat, drink, how to exercise, sending me to the doctor.. I'm 6 weeks pregnant. It's not easy to tell them, I'm not working %26amp; a full time college student. Just tell her now.
tell her then say i am sorry and i talke full responsiblilty for what i did

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