Need Honest Preferably Adult Advice But Teens are OK lol?

So a month ago I thought I might be pregnant


With my boyfriend of almost 2 years and 2 months(now fiances) child


And after testing for two weeks I decided to tell my mom


Even though all tests were false.


I had hoped my mom would be understanding and help me


Deal with all of the problems.


I was totally WRONG, she made me:


-Break up with my fiance(which she doesn't know about engagement)


-No phone


-No Driving


-No going out


-No talking to him period





Well two weeks later I was allowed to drive again without a phone to school and back


The next week I was given my phone for driving only


Well my step dad never made me give it back after school


So I always just put it in the kitchen to charge at night


Well a few nights later I had to stay with my grandparents


So I could take them somewhere early that next morning


Before school so that night him and i talked until 3 am


The most we've talked in a month.





So today I get invited to go bowling with my friends


And when I get home my step dad says give me your


Phone and here's this. A list of all my received and


Sent text messages. My mom was mad that I was talking


To him at 3 am. So I got my phone taken away again by her





My fiance is the best man in the world he does anything and everything for me without even thinking twice and even through all this he is still faithfully standing by my side.





My question is what do I do with my parents..


I want my mom to just unground me..


I've learned my lesson and just want to


Show her that I have %26amp; I dont want to hide


my fiance...





HELP!!!!!!!Need Honest Preferably Adult Advice But Teens are OK lol?
If you still get live with your parents and get grounded, you aren't responsible enough to be engaged...Need Honest Preferably Adult Advice But Teens are OK lol?
Why did you take so many pregnancy tests if you weren't going to believe the answer?





I can understand worrying about a false negative the first time, but after multiple tests saying no, that probably means you aren't pregnant.





So why the heck did you tell your mom?
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do you even have a ring? hahahahahahahah good luck LITTLE GIRL!!!
that's a little too yound to be engaged. I'm 17 and i LOVED my ex-boyfriend when i was 14 for weird reasons we ended up breaking up. we are still really immature at our age and i think you need to wait until later on in life at least 19 to get engaged and truly see why you are marrying that guy.
just tell her.





are you pregnant?
If I were your mother I would lock you in the house till you were 30. Does that answer your question? I know times have changed since I was young in the dark ages, but still you should not be having sex. AND even if your mother is OK with that, the reason she is upset with the boyfriend is that even if you were not responsible to use birth control, he should have been. If he truly respects you he would wait. I don't care how 'nice' he seems, he still almost got you PG. You are both kids. Tell your mom to write me and I will give her the name of a good locksmith. ;-)





If you want to show that you are responsible. Stay home. Study. Get all 4 points and keep your legs together! Your mother is just trying to protect you from yourself. Listen to her. When you are 30 (and the door is unlocked), you will be glad that she cared enough to keep you from ruining your life.





I can tell that the other answers that tell you to do what you want are from other teenagers. I am old enough to be your grandmother, so listen to me.
well since you're already carrying his baby, you might as well get married with him. but dont get married just because of the baby. get married because you love each other. (btw, how old are you?) %26amp;besides, if you're young, you're immature, you'll make mistakes, but your mother has to learn to accept that and support you through hardships like these. love prevails over everything. %26amp;your mom can't tell you who you love or whatever. so just follow your heart. if you wanna text him @ 3 am, text him @ 3am
Well I was your age at one point. How old are you by the way??? Anywho, I think YOU need to woman up and face your parent's. If you truly love him Hence ';Fiance'; then think things through. If your parents don't accept your decision they might throw you out. Do you have a place to stay while things cool down. Eventually she'll realize that if your serious she will have to except it.
Put her in a bag and chuck her in a river.


Run away with him and have kids.


Shoot your Dad for being annoying.


Get on with your life.





Hahaha. Its a joke. Do what you want, you are old enough now. Divorce your parents and ingore them. Forget about ti and move on.


Maybe consider throwing her in a river though..JOKING! lol cya hope i helped
Sorry your mom isn't understanding. But maybe this is because she doesn't want you to ruin your life. Tell her that you are happy with this.





Wait, this isn't teen pregnancy is this? And make sure that you're not rushing into marriage.





Maybe if you are a young teen, I can understand your mother is a little upset, but she should support you.





If after you tell her you are cool and happy with your life right now and she doesn't understand, I'm real sorry. At least your fiance will understand.





So you're not pregnant? I'm confused. . . either way, good luck with it all.





Wait, 16! Wait to get married! You're so young!!! Wait until you meet the right guy. And if you like this guy, then stay with him for a while. WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T RUSH MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!
This is hard to answer b/c I can see that your young but I don't know how old you are. First of all she is going to think that you are too young for all of this, but the fact that you told her about everything should show her something good. Maybe you need to sit down w/ur parents and talk to them. They sound really over protective. And if they are that is only going to push you away more. Maybe work out a deal where you talk to them more. Then if they will agree to it, have them sit down w/you guys and you can tell her your plans for the future. If you are close to 18 tho....I would still tell them how you feel and what not and deal w/their **** for now...then when you turn 18...you can move out and do whatever you want.





Ok, now that I see your age, you need to work something out with them. You can't go behind their backs for two more years. That will only get you in more trouble. Start trying to prove to them that you are old enough and mature enough to have this relationship. It may be b/c your young that you think the two of you will end up together forever, but it may also be true. Make sure she knows how happy he makes you and all that. No parent wants to hear that at that point, but no one can control love. Good Luck!!!