With my boyfriend of almost 2 years and 2 months(now fiances) child
And after testing for two weeks I decided to tell my mom
Even though all tests were false.
I had hoped my mom would be understanding and help me
Deal with all of the problems.
I was totally WRONG, she made me:
-Break up with my fiance(which she doesn't know about engagement)
-No phone
-No Driving
-No going out
-No talking to him period
Well two weeks later I was allowed to drive again without a phone to school and back
The next week I was given my phone for driving only
Well my step dad never made me give it back after school
So I always just put it in the kitchen to charge at night
Well a few nights later I had to stay with my grandparents
So I could take them somewhere early that next morning
Before school so that night him and i talked until 3 am
The most we've talked in a month.
So today I get invited to go bowling with my friends
And when I get home my step dad says give me your
Phone and here's this. A list of all my received and
Sent text messages. My mom was mad that I was talking
To him at 3 am. So I got my phone taken away again by her
My fiance is the best man in the world he does anything and everything for me without even thinking twice and even through all this he is still faithfully standing by my side.
My question is what do I do with my parents..
I want my mom to just unground me..
I've learned my lesson and just want to
Show her that I have %26amp; I dont want to hide
my fiance...
HELP!!!!!!!Need Honest Preferably Adult Advice But Teens are OK lol?
I'm not sure how old you are but you need to have a serious talk with your parents. Let them know that you've realized your mistake, and you are willing to be an adult about everything that has gone on. You need to re-assure them that you are going to be more responsible and careful. You need to also involve your fiance within this conversation as well that way the four of you are there to talk things out. Sooner or later your parents are going to have to realize that they can't shelter you forever.Need Honest Preferably Adult Advice But Teens are OK lol?
guys lie, guys come and they go, they want what they want and when they get it they leave, if something on the other side of the fence all of a sudden looks better than what they have, they are gonna jump right over it. guys will use you, disrespect you, and abuse you. parents on the other hand love you, go to work to provide for you, buy you clothes, food, cell phones, cars???? what, I wish my parents did, but anyway they love you and always will no matter what you do or what you will become they will always love you and want the best for you. Your mom has been married more than once so she knows exactly whats up when it comes to relationships. You don't understand it know but you will appreciate them for it later. Listen to your parents, your boyfriend knows whats up, he knows you want to be with him but your parents are preventing you from doing so. Lay off for a while and see just how faithful he really is.
You shouldnt have gotten knocked up!!!
apparently you are under 18. i can see what she is tryin to do but you are not smart as usual. she is trying to get you to see something but you are not taking it. the thing is why hurry and grow up? i mean why is that? the thing is if you grow up too fast it will be horrible. I mean what would have happened if you were pg and the man wouldn't want to be with you? i mean it would be hard. maybe he does care i am not sure is he ready to support you and does he have a job? i bet not what will you do/? that is the questions for you. how is he going to support you with no job and the baby needs food and clothes it is not fun to start out with hard time. shes trying to show you but you are not thinking all you are thinking about having good time and when the baby is here there is no good tiem i assure you but oh well keep it up you will have your way eventually and then stuck i am sure.
she's not going to unground you because she had proof (the phone bill) you didn't get the punishment she said you had to have.
sometimes you just have to suck it up and take the punishment.
You'll be 18 in 24 months or less and you'll be able to move out and live your life as you choose.
has your fiance made an effort to come by and talk to your parents? That could go a long way to them looking at him in a more positive light. Right now to them he's the ';irresponsible scum bag who almost knocked up their baby and ruined her future.';
It's hard to answer this question until we know how old you are. If you're under 17, your parents are scared and upset because you're having sex, and thought you were pregnant. They are trying to protect you. Wait until they are calm, then try talking to them again and tell them how you feel about your fiance. Have a mature conversation, without arguing with them if possible. Maybe in time you can change their minds. Hope this helps....
what the heck!!!??? If you think ur old enough to get married then move out and live with your fiance while dust settles after the wedding and the baby then go talk to your mom and tell her to take a chill pill cause your a grown woman and can make desisions on your own! by the way how old are you?
If you're young enough to get grounded, get your driving privileges and cell phone taken away, you're too young to be engaged. You don't do anything with your parents. You're in HIGH SCHOOL. They put the roof over your head and pay your bills, you follow their rules-end of story.
Go to school, enjoy your friends, live life. You're only young once. Don't be in a rush to grow up and get married. Sometimes I wish I was young and lived with my parents. My life would be a lot easier.
Rule are made for a reason. Your broke them and so you have to pay the consequences. Trust is one of the things you broke because what you do, you do behind their back and now your telling us that you are engaged and they don;t know that either. Everything your doing is secret. That is the problem with your parents that your not seeing. They resent the fact that you are not up fount with them and that they have to learn these things, %26gt;%26gt;%26gt;%26gt;after the fact%26lt;%26lt;%26lt;! When you start being an adult and stop putting them last in everything, they will treat you better. They will never be what you would like them to be because your excluding them in every decision you make. Your not showing responsibility for the things they give you so you end up losing them. Learn to include them and they will learn to trust you. Until then, nothing will evr change.
That's sad. I'm sorry you are going through that. Are you parents really strict? Anyway, I think you are just going to have to let them cool down for now. In the meantime, figure out if there is any way that you can move out. It sounds like they are infringing on your privacy. I think you need to be able to be who you are and not talking to your bf who you obviously care for and who sounds like an amazing guy (ie he didn't RUN for his life when you told him you were pregnant) just does not sound like you darlin..
Maybe you should move out on you own. It will change your whole life. Good luck.
I'll be 18 next month; but hope I can help. Well, first off, are you a responsible kid? If so, you could probably convince your parents that the best thing to do is to let you be with him if you WERE pregnant, but since you aren't, maybe they're being pretty reasonable...I mean you were obviously having sex with the guy....and I'd be pretty upset if my 16 year old daughter was doing a guy.
But I'm not here to lecture you, I'm sure you get enough of that. I'm sure you've heard all your life that life isn't fair. And it ain't. But here's what you gotta do: Actually TALK to your mom. Don't complain. Just be like hey mom, can we talk? And bring up the fact that you are 16 years old, not an adult, but nevertheless getting there. You've made mistakes and there's plenty more to come. If you can convince her that you have UNDOUBTEDLY learned your lesson, she should listen to you.
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